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Marriage and Divorce

March 18, 2024 2 mins

Should I Marry a Girl Who Used to Drink and Smoke as I Am a Hafidh of Quran?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Can I overcome concerns about my partner’s past mistakes, including substance use, and prevent them from relapsing, given our own past mistakes, if we marry? Answer Thank you for your question. I empathize with your feelings of confusion and indecisiveness because one never really knows how a potential spouse’s […]
March 18, 2024 2 mins

Can I Get a Nose Job for My Husband as I Wear Niqab, Anyway?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Nothing is wrong with my nose medically, but can I get a nose job to please my husband? I wear a niqab, so non-mahrams don’t see me. Does the saying by `A’isha (Allah be well pleased with her) apply here, where she states if a woman could remove her […]
March 18, 2024 2 mins

Should I Read Erotica as My Doctor Advised It?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I’m a young woman struggling with sexual dysfunction. An expert suggested therapy and reading erotica, but finding a psychologist is difficult, and erotica conflicts with my Islamic beliefs. How can I address my issues while staying true to my faith? Answer Thank you for your question. I empathize with […]
March 18, 2024 3 mins

What Should I Do as My Boyfriend of Five Years Still Won’t Propose?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question What should I do if my partner, who is younger and financially strained like me, didn’t commit to marriage despite my mother’s offer to support us financially, and his parents refused due to his financial constraints? Answer Thank you for your question. I empathize with your frustration, but thank […]