05: Must I marry my cousin?- Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

In this episode, Ustadha Raidah answers a question from a man who is afraid that his cousin will suffer if he does not marry her, as there is no other suitable match for her. In addition, he is interested in marrying another woman and feels they are a good match for each other. Ustadha Raidah […]

04-I hate my future wife’s father- Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

In this episode, Ustadha Raidah gives guidance to a man who is getting married, but whose future father-in-law is judgemental and rude, and might be the cause of clashes between the couple.  Each person will deal with difficult people in their lives, she explains, and we have the agency to allow these experience to let […]

03- Mother and husband not on good terms- Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

In this episode, Ustadha Raidah deals with a heartbreaking situation where a mother is trying to blackmail her daughter to divorce her husband and is threatening to confiscate her passport. Ustadha Raidah delves into the mental reasons behind abuse: from anxiety to control tendencies to narcissistic personalities. These problems usually do not happen overnight and […]

02- Telling Future Wife About Pornography Addiction-Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

Ustadha Raidah deals with a question from a man who is struggling with an addiction to pornography, trying to overcome it despite several relapses and is wondering how much he needs to disclose to a future wife. She speaks about the process of finding a spouse, and how much one needs to tell them whether it […]

01 -Skin Color Modification-Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil

In her first podcast, Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil counsels a woman, who is concerned about disobeying her parents. Although she is happy with her complexion, they are pressuring her to use skin-lightening creams, as they are worried that nobody will marry her. Ustadha Raidah reminds us that everything is in the hands of Allah, and He […]