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I Am in an Impermissible but Healthy Relationship. What Should I Do?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I am in a relationship which I know is haram and we have also done haram in the time we spent together during meetings and now people are getting suspicious but as a couple we are helping each other islamically which is making our attachment even stronger […]

I Feel So Guilty About Having a Girlfriend. How Can I Get Through This?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I was immature and got a girlfriend and then broke up after many years. I feel so guilty, as I wasted her time, dragged her along for nothing and increased her sins. What dua can I read to help her and me get through it? Is it permissible […]

I Am Attracted to a Young Man Who is in a Relationship. Should I Follow My Heart?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: A week ago I met a guy who is in a relationship with someone else. I feel like he is the one and I want to marry him. I care for him. Should I follow my heart? My heart says I’m going to marry him. We will avoid […]

Should I Marry My Boyfriend, or Break Off the Relationship?

Answered by Ustadh Tabraze Azam Question: I have a boyfriend. We have transgressed some limits and  I don’t want to do this anymore. I want to tell him that I have decided to marry him or to stop having contact. But I have learned that transgressing limits before marriage takes all the baraka away that […]