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My Wife Says It’s Unislamic for My Parents to Keep Secrets Between Us. What Do I Do?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, My wife says it’s unislamic for my parents to speak to me privately and keep secrets between her and me. My parents says its unislamic that the wife wants to know about family matters which they are uncomfortable sharing with her. What do I do? Answer: […]

I Am Getting to Know a Man for Marriage, but He Tells His Mother Everything. How Should I Proceed?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I am a very private person getting to know a man for marriage, but he tells his mother and friends everything we talk about, and he is easily persuaded by them. How should I proceed? Answer:Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I pray this finds you well. […]

My Aunty Is Spying on Me – Can I Tell Her to Stop?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I have an aunty who is always going through my things despite her being caught on more than one occasion. It is bothering me. Can I tell her to stop doing this? Answer: Assalamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, I pray this finds you well. May Allah […]

Are In-Laws Allowed to Interfere in Intimate Matters and Rule the Life of a Couple ?

Answered by Ustadh Tabraze Azam Question: As salam alaykum, Does a cancelation of a religious marriage exist ? Is it Islamic to force the bride to consume the marriage and disclose the matter to his family? Are muslims allowed to interfere in intimate matters and rule the life of the couple ? Are in-laws and […]