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Wife Confesses Pre-Marital Affair

Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil is asked what to do if one finds out that one’s spouse was sinful before marriage. I am a 26 year old male who did his nikah a few months back. I had approached this girl’s family as she was hijabi and seemed pious and simple. Before our nikah, she had […]

Sincere Repentance from Zina

Ustadh Salman Younas is asked how to sincerely repent from having committed zina and if it is necessary to ask the other for forgiveness. Question: Assalam alaykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh. I am a young Muslim guy. I do pray five times a day. But I have committed zina several times. I did make […]

How Does a Wife Forget Her Husband’s past Zina?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: AssalaAlaykumum, A husband mentioned that he had previous relationships with women.He has asked Allah for forgiveness and is comforting to his wife and understands her heartache and frustration. He does his best to make her happy. However, it is still hurting her. She recently found this out and […]

How Do I Stop Committing Zina?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I met a young man at university two years ago and we began a sinful relationship. I can’t stay away from him. I do not want to marry him, as he probably does this with many other girls. I used to pray 5 times a day, […]

What Exactly Is Zina?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I have been struggling with masturbation. I just wanted to know what exactly zina is, what are some ways to avoid it, and if masturbation falls under this category. Answer: Assalam alaykum. Jazakum Allah khayr for your question. May Allah reward you for striving to correct your […]

Does Penetration by Mistake Constitute Zina? (Shafi’i)

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I have a girlfriend and we have decided that we would do anything but real sex. So recently when we were together I was laying on her naked and my genital penetrated inside her though none of us had previous intention of doing that. Did I commit […]

How Do I End a Sinful Relationship Without Breaking His Heart?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I am in a sinful relationship with a young man, and we have fallen to the point of major zina. I just want to end this relationship and wait for him until he is ready to marry me. I don’t know how to tell him. How […]

Do Unlawful Relationships Deprive One of Faith?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I have read that a muslim gets deprived of his faith when he is involved in fornication. Can I get deprived my faith if I kiss and touch a girl? Answer:Wa’alaykum assalam. Thank you for your question. Major and minor sins, including zina, do not deprive one […]

I Am in an Impermissible but Healthy Relationship. What Should I Do?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I am in a relationship which I know is haram and we have also done haram in the time we spent together during meetings and now people are getting suspicious but as a couple we are helping each other islamically which is making our attachment even stronger […]

Should a Couple in a Sinful Relationship Get Married? [Video]

Answered by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani Question: Assalamu alaykum Should a couple in a sinful relationship get married? Answer:  Wa’leykum Salam, Here is a video answer by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani to this question: Shaykh Faraz Rabbani is a scholar and researcher of Islamic law and Executive Director of SeekersHub Global After ten years overseas, Shaykh Faraz […]