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Can I Make Dua That Allah Sends My Boyfriend to Me as My Future Husband?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I am a young girl who has had a relationship with a guy for over 2 years, but we broke up. I know that everything is already written for us and we have to put faith in Allah, as He knows best. However, I don’t like […]

I Am in an Impermissible but Healthy Relationship. What Should I Do?

Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I am in a relationship which I know is haram and we have also done haram in the time we spent together during meetings and now people are getting suspicious but as a couple we are helping each other islamically which is making our attachment even stronger […]

I Am Now Religious, but My Boyfriend Is Not. What Do I Do?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I am in love with someone who is not practising religion. I didn’t use to practise it either, but now I am, and we’ve been together for the past 5 years. I’m trying hard to change him, but it’s hard for him. Do I keep trying to change […]

I Am Attracted to a Young Man Who is in a Relationship. Should I Follow My Heart?

Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: A week ago I met a guy who is in a relationship with someone else. I feel like he is the one and I want to marry him. I care for him. Should I follow my heart? My heart says I’m going to marry him. We will avoid […]

Should I Pay an Expiation After Breaking My Vow to Not Have a Sexual Relation With My Boyfriend?

Answered by Ustadh Tabraze Azam Question: Assalam ‘aleykum. Should I pay an expiation after breaking my vow to not have a sexual relation with my boyfriend even if I don’t know what is entailed by this expiation? Answer: Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah, I pray that this message finds you well, insha’Allah. If you broke your […]

Should I Marry My Boyfriend, or Break Off the Relationship?

Answered by Ustadh Tabraze Azam Question: I have a boyfriend. We have transgressed some limits and  I don’t want to do this anymore. I want to tell him that I have decided to marry him or to stop having contact. But I have learned that transgressing limits before marriage takes all the baraka away that […]